We may talk about elegance and beauty and such highfalutin stuff as rulership. But we are fundamentally concerned with not feeding our own ego. It’s more about settling down and having a home. Maybe you should get married. Find out about taking care of a child, having a husband or a wife, having a home. It will change your entire life! Of course, not everyone has to get married. The main point is not feeding one’s self-deception.
From Great Eastern Sun: The Wisdom of Shambhala by Chögyam Trungpa, page 133