At what point do we decide to go with the habitual tendencies of exaggeration and denial or try something new? Where is the fork in the road? We need to explore these two experiences: reacting…staying open …reacting…staying open…reacting…staying open again. We begin to see the difference. It’s a process of refinement. Our investigation cultivates a discerning intelligence that guides us in a positive direction.
We need to ask ourselves: “If our confusion finds its genesis in our habit of turning away from the open state, what would happen if we habituated ourselves to staying open?”
From The Power of an Open Question: The Buddha’s Path to Freedom by Elizabeth Mattis-Namgyel, pages 30–31