Daily Wisdom / Ocean of Dharma

Lonely Love

Book coverI don’t think anybody can fall in love unless they feel lonely. People can’t fall in love unless they know they are lonely and are separate individuals… The whole idea of union is that of two being together. One and one together make union. If there’s just one, you can’t call that union. Zero is not union, one is not union, but two is union. So I think in love it is the desolateness that inspires the warmth.

From The Path Is the Goal by Chögyam Trungpa, page 140

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